Satisfaction in God Alone
I praise You, the God of all wisdom for husbands. Thank You, God, for knowing the longings of my husband’s heart far better than I do. You know why he hungers for ______ and ______. You know how these yearnings affect his decisions and how those decisions affect our marriage.
You are the God who satisfies the longing soul. You fill the hungry soul with good things. Here is _____’s heart and soul, Lord. I lift him up to You and ask You to fill him with the good You know He needs (Psalm 107:9; Matthew 6:8).
The world offers _____ so many things to temporarily satisfy his needs. Temptations abound, but You are his shield and his defender. Please train him to resist the devil (Psalm 28:7; Psalm 59:9; James 4:7).
I celebrate that You triumph over every one of Satan’s schemes and the scars he has left on my husband’s heart. You are Jehovah Rapha, _____’s Healer. You are the restorer of his soul. Let the balm of Your perfect love and mercy touch the brokenness of his heart (Genesis 50:20; Exodus 15:26; Psalm 23:3; Jeremiah 17:14).
You joined Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in the fiery furnace, and when they came out unharmed, they didn’t even smell like smoke. Use their courage to inspire ____ to fear You only. I trust You to give him rest and satisfaction while protecting him from harm (Daniel 3:8–30; Proverbs 19:23).
A Man of Your Word
Father, Your Word amazes me. The world is looking for the next “perfect” solution to their problems, and You are always offering it through Your Word. You sent Your Word to deliver, nourish, and counsel us. My heart’s desire is for ______ to feast on Your Word and find It immensely satisfying (Psalm 107:20; Proverbs 3:8; Psalm 119:24; 103).
With Your Word as His source of wisdom, I will rest secure in his leadership of our home. I trust Your Word to fill ____ with the insight he will need for our relationship, his work, and so much more (Ephesians 1:8,17; James 1:5).
Your Word will unite his heart to Yours. His oneness with You will lead his pursuit of oneness with me. Your ways will become His ways. Your faithfulness to me will become His faithfulness to me (1 Corinthians 6:17; Mark 10:8; Galatians 5:23).
Send him an abundance of confidants whose faith in You is bold and courageous. Let them be men who do not lean on their own understanding, but always acknowledge You and Your Word (Psalm 119:63; Proverbs 28:1; 3:5–6).
Humility: The Courage to Admit His Need of God
Thank You, Father for the gift of Jesus and His perfect example of humility. Jesus displayed His love for us with great humility and submissiveness to You. He denied Himself the comforts of heaven to save us. He chose to experience temptations, mockery, rejection, and even death. He rated our needs higher than His own.
You require _______ to love me as Christ loved the church. With great love for ____, I’m asking You to empower him to do this (Ephesians 5:25).
You know the pressure _____ feels to be successful and strong. You know how he is influenced to be self-reliant. You understand his fears and insecurities. He is simply human and at risk of denying his need for You, God. I do not want to see him destroy his life or our marriage because of pride (Proverbs 18:12).
I bring ____ to You, the river of life, and ask You to anoint him with a supernatural portion of Christ’s humility. With it he will be a ready recipient of Your grace. He will be free to boast about his weaknesses to You and wait for You to satisfy his needs with Your strength (Psalm 36:8; James 4:6; 2 Corinthians 11:30, 12:9–10).
You’ve promised that humility is rewarded with riches, honor, and life. Those are gifts I want for my husband, Lord. Help him to let go of any pride and false humility so that he can enjoy the abundant life Jesus died to give him (Proverbs 22:4; John 10:10).
Your Praise on His Lips
Give ______ eyes to see that You deserve the highest praise. Let him personally experience Your grandeur and strength. Let him live with great conviction that Jesus has authority over all things on earth and in the spiritual realm (Psalm 145:3; Ephesians 1:22).
You inhabit the praises of Your people, and I want ____ to enjoy the comfort and power of Your presence every moment. So, Father, please grant him an irrevocable gift of praising You. Let Your Spirit continually offer up a sacrifice of praise through _____ so that his lips always acknowledge Your name (Psalm 22:3; Philippians 2:10; Hebrews 13:15)
Teach him to praise You in his lowest moments. Train him to exalt Your name during the trials and before the victories. Let his faith in You lead him courageously into our own promised land despite the ominous giants of fear and doubt. Use the psalmists to mentor him in lifting His head to praise Your faithfulness despite his present burdens (1 Corinthians 15:57; 2 Chronicles 20; Numbers 13–14; Psalm 43:5).
Transform His Wife
You know every one of my weaknesses and how they are impacting my role as ____’s helpmate. Lead me, Lord, to recognize the ungodliness hiding in my will, my expectations, and how I express my emotions. I want to surrender them to You for healing. Show me where I am investing my attention in things that will deteriorate my relationship with _____ (2 Corinthians 12:9–10; Luke 12:2; 2 Corinthians 4:18; Ephesians 1:8,17).
Let the power of Your Word transform my motives. Coach me relentlessly to be a wife who respects her husband in word and deed. Cause Your tenderness, gentleness, kindness, and humility to become my own (Romans 12:2; Ephesians 5:22–24; Colossians 3:12).
I want to be a content wife who does not harass my husband with quarrels and fretfulness. Please use me to create a peaceful home for him. Use me to encourage him, bear his burdens, and reflect Your extravagant love for him (Hebrews 13:5; Philippians 4:11–12; 2 Thessalonians 3:16; 1 Thessalonians 5:11; Galatians 6:2; Ephesians 3:18–19).
May our souls feast on only on You (Psalm 63:5).
I pray these things with complete confidence in Jesus and Your Spirit at work in our marriage. Amen.
Dear God, Your righteous anger toward evil overshadows the pain in my heart and allows me to forgive as You are righteously angry for me. Thank You for freeing my heart so that I may begin to heal. In Jesus’ Name, amen.
God, I acknowledge You as _______’s provider. Thank You for providing all ______ needs to live in peace and harmony with me and others.
Your Word is alive and a gift of healing to ______. I invite You to fill _____’s life with It. Let It be a salve to _____’s wounds. Use it to set ______ free from the snare of the enemy.
You are the Good Shepherd. Please rescue _______ from paths of destruction.
You are the Wonderful Counselor. Break down the walls in _____’s heart and mind with Your battering ram of revelation. Give ____ spiritual wisdom and insight to know You. Flood ______’s heart with Your light.
Where _____ has endured shame, pour double portions of honor into _____’s life.
Your Holy Spirit intercedes for _____ 24/7. Use me to do the same and raise up an army of intercessors on _______’s behalf. Let heaven and earth work in tandem to deliver ____ from evil.
Make _____ ready to hear me and others speak Your truth in love. Help ____ to experience Your love and Your presence.
You are the One who can enable _____ to hunger for Your Word and obey Your commands. Let that be so for ________.
With faith in Jesus, I pray. Amen
What the Lord has joined together let no man put asunder.Pray these prayers aggressively to chase the strange man or woman out of your marriage.
The Lord will fight for you in Jesus name.
- Every known and unknown strange woman woman/man interfering in my marriage receive the attack of God in the name of Jesus.
- Any strange woman/man using evil spiritual bullet proof against my prayers be destroyed with your instrument in the name of Jesus.
- You arrows of strange woman/man troubling my matrimonial home go back to your sender in the name of Jesus.
4 I destroy every confidence and boasting of any strange woman/man over my marriage in the name of Jesus.
- Every stronghold of any strange woman/man built around my marital life, I command you to catch fire now in the name of Jesus.
- Any strange woman/man occupying my matrimonial home, pack your load nd go in the name of Jesus.
- Any strange woman planning to conceive for my husband I command your womb and breast to dry up in the name of Jesus (Hosea 9:14).
- Every strange leg roaming about my matrimonial home be chased out by fire in the name of Jesus.
- Every evil fetish carried out against my marriage by any strange woman/man be nullified by the blood of Jesus.
10 I claim all the ground I have lost to the strange woman/man and evil counsellors in the name of Jesus.
11. Every evil effect of incense burnt against my marriage by any strange woman/man be nullified by the blood of Jesus.
12. Any strange woman/man burning candle because of my marriage , husband/wife, I command both you and candle to perish and melt away by fire in the name of Jesus.
13. Any strange woman/man shedding blood because of me, my marriage and my husband/wife be exposed and be disgraced, and the effect of the blood be rendered null and void in the name of Jesus.
14. Any souls standing naked against my marriage , husband/wife negatively receive double disappointment in Jesus name.
15. Every incantation rendered against my marriage, my life and my husband/wife be rendered impotent by the blood of Jesus.
16. Anything representing my husband/wife, my life and my marriage in the demonic world be withdrawn by the fire of God in the name of Jesus.
17. Any power chanting incantation on any animal horn to influence my ma negatively, I command both you and the horn to be destroyed by fire in the name of Jesus.
18.Every covenant my husband /wife entered with you is broken by the blood of Jesus christ.
Father, I pray for ______ that You might expose the evil done against _____ and that the perpetrator might be brought to repentance or else experience the pain he/she inflicted on others. Let them be unable to sleep; awaken them with the painful reality of what they’ve done and judge them accordingly. If granting them blessings will lead them to repentance, then we pray for their blessing. If it must be tragedy that awakens them to the trail of evil they have left behind, then do whatever is necessary to bring to their senses.
Meanwhile give us the sure confidence that You will do what is right and good; let us entrust the evil done against us into Your sovereign hand, and with that, let us be content.
“Dear Heavenly Father,
We come to you because there is a pain in _______________’s heart that runs so deep only you can repair it.
Lord, we trust in the goodness of you, but the goodness of people is not as reliable. Lord, I ask that you give __________________ the courage and wisdom to listen to your still small voice and protect his/her emotions as _________________ obeys what you tell him/her.
Lord, this will be the hardest task for ______________ to do, but he/she is able because ___________________ is not relying on himself/ herself this time. _______________ will completely rely on you for his/her strength. Please fill _____________ with all the love that he/she needs to make the decisions that are healthiest for him/her and the family.
Bless this child of God with the right people to surround and protect him/her with the proper support. Give _____________the courage to reach out for prayer and sound counceling.
Ground _______________ in the truth of your word, and show_______________ how precious he/she is in your sight. Build _________________’s self-worth in what you have to say about ____________________.
We cast down the worship of (name the spouse____________________). He/she is _______________ wife/husband, but ____________________ is not God.
_____________________ will not be put in God’s place in _________________’s life anymore. Give ____________ the power to see when he/she is becoming unbalanced in his/her love for his/her wife/ husband, as this is another form of idolatry and you do not take that lightly.
Lord, ______________________-desires to serve and honor you.
We ask that as he/she submits to you as the God in his/her life you will reward __________________quickly as this situation is heartbreaking and confusing. You are not the author of confusion so speak wisdom, understanding and strength to ________________.
In Jesus precious name, give ______________a double-fold increase in faith, trust and love for you and keep holding his/her hand as he/she walks down your path.
Gently turn his/her heart toward you, Lord and as he/she seeks your face, heal that heart so that ________________ will never be the same again. In Jesus’ name, we thank you for all that you are doing in the spiritual realm, for we go by faith not by sight, Amen.”