Prayer for fighting for marriage

Sometime ago, a spouse contacted me because he could no longer live with his wife. He hated everything about her. It was as if she had become a monster overnight.  No; there was no ‘other woman’ involved. He resented her in his home.
I discerned that the forces of evil were influencing the situation. And we launched out in warfare prayer against the demonic hordes working against their marriage. And through online counselling, we were able to work through all the other issues that opened them up for demon activity.
Some of those issues are also confronted in this prayer as well

LET US PRAY:

  • ALMIGHTY GOD, thank YOU for the marriages represented hereon.
  • I ask ABBA that your power to heal and to restore be here present.
  • I identify and confess as sin: anger, bitterness, resentment, selfishness, greed, avarice, inability to forgive and to let go, disobedience, and the putting of others first before YOU and our spouse.
  • In accordance with YOUR Word, I affirm that you have blotted out our sins as well as the handwriting of ordinances working against us.
  • We receive cleansing from all unrighteousness. And affirm that our minds are renewed and we now function in accordance with your will.
  • Let your peace flood our souls.
  • Let unconditional love saturates the entirety of our beings so that the wives will be submissive;  the husbands would love their wives las CHRIST loved the Church and died for Her; and both spouses would submit to one another in love.
  • By the Speaking Blood of JESUS CHRIST, We come against the forces of evil that has been assigned to frustrate and break marriages.
  • All controlling spirits sent against your marriage are bound and rendered impotent and are to leave at once.
  • All negative spiritual networks and reinforcements are to self-destruct at once. Zero visuals. Your marriage is no longer in satan’s radar now, in CHRIST’s name
  • All demons on assignment to your marriage are now isolated and rendered impotent. They can no longer perform their enterprise.
  • The name of JESUS CHRIST is exalted above all names in heaven, on earth and under the earth: therefore as these names are mentioned, all evil spirits and their relatives associated with the following names are to leave at once without causing any damage to lives and property:Anger; bitterness; resentment; selfishness; malcontent; greed; avarice; wickedness; negative memory; frustration; divorce; separation; single-parenting; constant disagreements; deep seated anger; anguish of soul; fault-finding; blame-shifting; rejection; irresponsibility; plan-less spending; addiction and  addictive behaviour; carelessness; inconsideration; vindictiveness; trouble from in-laws; the tormenting of children with regular/cyclical sicknesses; economic hardship; hate; revenge; disharmony and all form of abuse; cheating; lying; lust; unrealistic expectations, occult projections; witchcraft; idolatry and sorcery
  • I place a ban on all outgoing demons to never to come back under any guise or disguise to torment, oppress, suppress, obsess, intimidate, manipulate, or control ever again, in CHRIST’s name
  • The FINGER of GOD, the shield of faith and the word of my testimony is against all such evil spirits.
  • I affirm that the works of the devil is destroyed and your marriage is set free to model CHRIST and the Church.
  • Today is the day of salvation, restoration, deliverance and healing of individuals and marriages! An end has come to evil.  The good is come. Let peace like a river flow!All the works of the devil in your marriage is destroyed!
  • Your emotions, mind-set, affection, memory, feelings, mouth, reasoning faculties, perception, understanding, hearing, view-point, speech, body language, attitude and personality is cleansed and renewed.
  • GOD is working in and through you to touch more lives through your marriage.Your marriage is graced and favoured. Unity, harmony, faith, commitment, understanding, love, loyalty, accountability, and Godly characteristics flourish.
  • The fruit of the Holy Spirit is more evident in you. You are producing fruits worthy of repentance.Your household is blessed. Your children are blessed.
  • Your marriage will not end in divorce.  The scourge of ancestral marital failures is stopped in your generation. Single parenting is not your portion. Your spouse will not abandon you and the kids.
  • Your spouse will live long and you both shall enjoy your marriage and endure each other.
  • The other man/woman is to go at once and be married to another
  • Ungodly soul ties are severed. No one, no matter who they are, can interfere with your marriage again. The joy of marriage is restored to you. Your companionship is restored.
  • We boldly declare that the forces behind addiction, infidelity, spousal abuse and neglect are incapacitated. Your marital bond is renewed.
  • Every other relationship that is interfering with the unity and harmony of your family is terminated at once.
  • All straying spouses are to return home and be reconciled.  Forgiveness flourishes. Laughter resounds in your home.
  • I speak to your finances and economic base to receive the multiplier effect. Have more than enough and bless others.From today, the love and fear of GOD shall inform all your interactions with each other, in CHRIST name.
  • Receive more grace in your marriage. It is well with you all, in CHRIST name I have prayed.
  • Thank you ABBA for speedy answers to our prayers, for am confident that  YOU will confirm my words and perform my counsel to YOUR glory and praise, in CHRIST name. Amen.
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Bind and loose prayers

Prayers from “Shattering Your Strongholds” by Liberty Savard

SELF Prayer 1

In the name of Jesus Christ, I bind my body, soul and spirit to the will and purposes of God.  I bind myself to the truth of God.  I bind myself to the awareness of the power of the blood of Jesus working in my life every day.  I bind my mind to the mind of Christ so I can have the thoughts, purposes and feelings of His mind and heart in me.  I bind my feet to the paths you have ordained for me to walk, God, that my steps will be strong and steady.  I bind myself of the work of the cross with all its mercy, truth, love, power, forgiveness and dying to self.  I know that this is where the power to become a new creature in Christ, lies.

Lord, I repent of having wrong attitudes and thoughts; I renounce them now and ask your forgiveness.  I loose every old, wrong, pattern of thinking, attitude, idea, desire, belief, habit and behaviour that may still be working in me.  I tear down, crush, smash and destroy every stronghold I have erected to protect them.  I bind myself to the attitudes of Jesus Christ.

Father, I loose the power and the effects of any harsh or hard words, or any word curses, spoken about me, to me or by me.  I loose any stronghold thinking still connected to them.  I loose all generational bondage thinking from myself.  Thank you, Jesus, that you have promised that whatever I bind and loose on earth that is in accordance with the will of the Father, will be bound and loosed in heaven, Amen.

SELF Prayer 2

Lord, I’m standing on the truth of your Word.  You said that you would give me the Keys of the Kingdom, that whatever I would bind on earth would be bound in heaven and whatever I loose on earth, will be loosed in heaven.  Right now, in the name of Jesus Christ, I bind my will to the will of God so that I will be constantly aware of His purposes for my life.  I bind myself to the truth of God that I will not be deceived by the lies of the world and the devil.

I bind myself to the blood of Jesus, that I will never take it for granted.  I want to be constantly aware of its miracle-working power to restore and heal me.  I bind myself to the mind of Christ that I will be aware of how Jesus would have me think in every situation that I come into this day.  I do not want to react out of my own human, carnal thoughts, when unsettling situations arise suddenly, I want to think and act as Jesus would

I bind my feet to the paths of righteousness that my steps will be steady and true all day long.  I bind myself to the work of the cross in my life so that I will continue to die daily to my own selfish desires and motivations and be more like Him.  I bind and loose these things in the name of Jesus Christ, who has given me the keys to do so.  Thank you, Lord, for the truth.  Amen.

Sample Prayer for Male:

In the name of Jesus Christ, I bind _______’s body, soul and spirit to the will and purposes of God for all of his life.  I bind _______’s mind, will and emotions to the will of God.  I bind him to the truth and to the blood of Jesus.   I bind his mind to the mind of Christ; that the very thoughts, feelings and purposes of Christ’s heart would be within ____­’s thoughts at all times.  I bind _______’s feet to the paths of righteousness so that his steps would be steady and sure.  I bind him to the work of the cross with all its mercy, grace, love, forgiveness and dying to self.
I loose every old, wrong, ungodly pattern of thinking, attitude, idea, desire, belief, motivation and every wrong mind and body agreement he has about wrong behaviours.  I tear down, I crush, I smash and I destroy every stronghold associated with these things.  I loose any stronghold in his life that has been justifying and protecting hard feelings against anyone.  I loose strongholds of unforgiveness, fear and distrust from him.
I loose the power and effects of wrong agreements from _______.  I loose deception and lies from _______’s mind and I loose the effects of any soul ties he has with other people.   I loose the confusion and blindness from the god of this world from _______’s mind that has kept him from seeing the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  I call forth every precious word of Scripture that has ever entered into ­_______’s mind and heart, that it would rise up in power within him now.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I loose the power and effects of any harsh words, hard words and word curses, spoken to, spoken about or spoken by _______.  I loose all generational bondage thinking and all associated strongholds from _______.  I loose all grave clothes from him.  I loose all effects and bondages from him that may have been caused by mistakes I have made.
Father, in the name of Jesus, I crush, I smash and I destroy all generational bondages of any kind from mistakes made at any point between generations in _______’s family.  I destroy them right here, right now.  They will not bind and curse any more members of _______’s family.
I bind and loose all these things in Jesus’ name.  He has given me the keys and the authority to do so.  Thank you, Lord, for the truth.  Amen.
Sample Prayer for Female:
In the name of Jesus Christ, I bind _______’s body, soul and spirit to the will and purposes of God for all of her life.  I bind _______’s mind, will and emotions to the will of God.  I bind her to the truth and to the blood of Jesus.   I bind her mind to the mind of Christ; that the very thoughts, feelings and purposes of Christ’s heart would be within ____­
’s thoughts at all times.  I bind _______’s feet to the paths of righteousness so that her steps would be steady and sure.  I bind her to the work of the cross with all its mercy, grace, love, forgiveness and dying to self.
I loose every old, wrong, ungodly pattern of thinking, attitude, idea, desire, belief, motivation and every wrong mind and body agreement she has about wrong behaviours.  I tear down, I crush, I smash and I destroy every stronghold associated with these things.  I loose any stronghold in her life that has been justifying and protecting hard feelings against anyone.  I loose strongholds of unforgiveness, fear and distrust from her.
I loose the power and effects of wrong agreements from _______.  I loose deception and lies from _______’s mind and I loose the effects of any soul ties she has with other people.   I loose the confusion and blindness from the god of this world from _______’s mind that has kept her from seeing the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  I call forth every precious word of Scripture that has ever entered into ­_______’s  mind and heart, that it would rise up in power within her now.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I loose the power and effects of any harsh words, hard words and word curses, spoken to, spoken about or spoken by _______.  I loose all generational bondage thinking and all associated strongholds from _______.  I loose all grave clothes from her.  I loose all effects and bondages from her that may have been caused by mistakes I have made.
Father, in the name of Jesus, I crush, I smash and I destroy all generational bondages of any kind from mistakes made at any point between generations in _______’s family.  I destroy them right here, right now.  They will not bind and curse any more members of _______’s family.
I bind and loose all these things in Jesus’ name.  He has given me the keys and the authority to do so.  Thank you, Lord, for the truth.  Amen.

Prayer in a Marriage or Personal Crisis, Broken Heart and Depression

How does one pray then in the midst of marriage breakup, divorce or breakdown of a serious legal relationship?
1. The purpose of this prayer is to strip away Satan’s power to veil the eyes of the person.

2.  Check out forgiveness as a secret of emotional safety and protection in times of emotional crisis – marriage breakup, for example.

3.  There is a prayer for care of a broken heart so you don’t become bitter and unable to love again.

4.  Stick with me, here.  There is a place for praise when broken hearted and depressed

5.  Remember Footprints? Well, you can ask Jesus to carry you when life is overwhelming.

6.  Bad news?  Right in the middle of a marriage crisis something else may be happening.  You might be having a mini nervous breakdown.  Now that is not fair.  (But life is not always fair, is it?)

  1. Level Playing Field

Father, I take a stand, in Jesus name, against all the works of the enemy in this situation.

I claim protection for (names) that they be signed with the cross of Jesus, sealed with the blood of Jesus, hidden in Christ and protected all around with your holy angels.

I call upon God: for the presence of God within this situation, for the wisdom from above for each one, and for God’s quick judgment upon the plans of Satan and the works of darkness in this situation.

I call for victory in Jesus name for God’s truth and God’s holy ones.

I claim defeat, in Jesus name, of Satan’s power to veil minds. May all veils be removed and spiritual eyes be opened to see and know what is true.

I claim defeat, in Jesus name, of any and all fascination with sin or evil. May eyes be open to the beauty, grace and truth of God.

In the authority of Jesus I break the power of any curse, negative work or unbelieving prayer against anyone in this situation. I break it off in Jesus name and ask Jesus to break the power of any evil riding upon these curses or negative words.

May ears be open to God’s Word, to the truth that sets us free. Feed us Father with your daily bread – Your very word spoken to us. Send forth Your Word of healing and blessing. For Your word is living and powerful and accomplishes Your purposes.

Praise be to God”

2. Forgiveness as the Secret of Protection from Name-calling forgiveness

If you want protection from name-calling and mud slinging in a relationship then you have some decisions to make. Do you need to fight back? Do you need to hurt the one that is hurting you?

Taking emotional revenge comes at a price. God will not protect you from emotional hurt.

If you want God to protect you emotionally then you have to give up your right to strike back. You cannot avenge yourself by hurting the other. Whenever you are act as your own protector you keep God out of it

However, as soon as you decide not to hurt the other God steps in to protect you. You will be amazed at the invisible shield that God puts up.

Decide to walk in forgiveness toward the other. As they hurt you forgive.

Move into blessing the other. As the speak ill of you, you, in your mind, speak blessing toward them. “Father bless then, show them Your love. Give them your peace.

3. Broken Heart to God – a Prayer in times of Heart Break and Depression broken heart

Your heart may be broken. If you give your heart to God it will mend right. If you don’t it will have scars. It will be hardened and bitter. You will not be able to easily love again. So trust your heart to God.

He will hold those broken pieces in His hands. As they mend you will have a soft heart. You will be able to love again with increased love.

The verbal prayer goes like this:

Father my heart is broken. I feel like it is in pieces. I need to put my heart into your care. Will you take care of it for me? I want to be able to love again. I don’t want to be bitter and brittle.

A physical way of expressing it is to physically reach out with the motion of giving your heart into the hands of Jesus.

Take time to listen to God. Wait for His affirmation that he will take your heart into His care. When you sense this, thank Him.

You can do the “Broken Heart to God” prayer as a story – an inner drama. Picture yourself taking your heart and placing it in the Father’s hands. See Him take your heart into His hands. Ask Him to take care of your heart. Wait and see what happens. What do you sense? What do you feel? What do your hear? Give thanks.

4.   Pray with praise when broken hearted and depressed praise when broken

In a personal crisis it is easy to get discouraged and lose faith. Ones spirits can droop and we become depressed. Praise to God counteracts this.

One highly important action to take in times like this is to find things to thank God for. Gratitude is a healthy feeling.

You can keep a blessing book. Every day note one blessing. This brings encouragement.

Keep praise and worship songs in one’s life. Praise builds faith. Praise generates spiritual power even more than prayer.

Encourage yourself with praise. Learn an instrument. Collect praise songs. Read over praise psalms.

Write your own psalms of praise – crafted praise. Listen to God, meditate and write praises to God for His ability to work everything out for good.

It doesn’t make sense but it works.  Praise in times of crisis.

5.   Use the “Carry Me Jesus” Prayer when Overwhelmed “Jesus to carry

There are time when one feels totally overwhelmed. Grief and loss of piled up. Depression rolls in. Painful memories are more then pleasant ones. Life’s frustrations outnumber the satisfactions. The ones that are closest to you hurt or desert you. No one understands. Guilt may be extreme. Energy may be minimal. Unsolved problems compound. Anxiety builds. There doesn’t seem to be any way out.

Do you want a Biblical description of deep depression to the point of being overwhelmed? Look at Psalm 142 and 143 for a variety of images describing depression. Note the following words and images in the King James version: ‘my spirit was overwhelmed within me’ (142:3, 143:4), ‘no one cares for my soul’ (142:4), ‘I am brought very low’ (142:6), ‘Bring my soul out of prison’ (142:7), ‘the enemy has crushed my life to the ground, has made me dwell in darkness’ (142:3), ‘my heart within me is distressed’ (143:4), ‘my spirit fails’ (143:7),  ‘lest I be like those who go down into the pit’ (143:7).

Not only is one’s life is a crisis, in these verses it seems one’s heart, soul and spirit – one’s very life – is on the line.

“Carry Me”

In this situation where one feel overwhelmed it appropriate to ask Jesus to carry you. Jesus is willing to carry you. Remember ‘Footprints.’

The “Carry Me” verbal prayer would go like this:

Jesus I feel overwhelmed. I can’t stand the pressure. It is too much for me. The burden is too heavy. I need you. I need you to carry me through this period of my life. Would you carry me?

You are asking a question so take time to listen for the answer. Be still. Wait. Don’t think but do note what thoughts come spontaneously to you. What images do you see or sense? What thought comes to you? Observe your feelings, thoughts and imagination for God’s response. Thank him.

“Carry Me” refers to a picture of a lost sheep. Away form the fold this sheep is out in the cold night, scared and perhaps trapped where it cannot move. The shepherd must look for the lost sheep. The shepherd picks up this lost sheep and carries it home. The sheep is calmed and warmed by the shepherd’s body and calm voice. The sheep is now safe with the shepherd and soon will be safe home with the flock. This feels good.

“Carry Me” is a inner prayer drama would go like this. Imagine yourself as a lost sheep. You are calling out for the shepherd. You are scared, wet, cold and trapped. You fee awful. Finally the Good Shepherd arrives. He picks you up. Calms you down. Dries you off and carries you home. You feel warmed and calmed as the shepherd carries you. Imagine how you feel. Take a few minutes to experience you, as this sheep, being carried along by the shepherd. Imagine how thankful you feel toward your shepherd. Imagine how good you feel when you are back home.

When you are finished notice how you feel. If you have time write a prayer to Jesus the Good Shepherd that you can say every day – your own psalm.

7.  Nervous Breakdown and Positive Breakdown nervous breakdown

Common language often conveys great insight. The term “nervous breakdown” reflects the people’s experience. People can and do experience that “feel like I am having a nervous breakdown.” So if you want a definition ask the people who have experienced it.

My sense of what this term means is a stressful period where one feels overwhelmed and where something is happening to one but one can’t say what it is. It is a period of confusion. One doesn’t know what is going on.  People in this state may frequently say, “I don’t know.”

What is my interpretation of this? The reason for the confusion is that there is major pressure on one’s identity and practices patterns of being. There is a disintegration of one’s assigned family role – of one’s character pattern. This disintegration brings with it a confusion of one’s identity?

What is happening is that a major character pattern that served in the past no longer serves. One is in an identity change. The old is passing away and the new is coming into place.

Dabrowski coined the phrase “Positive Disintegration,” (Positive Disintegration, Little, Brown and Co., 1964). In his model of human development there is disintegration of one stage of development so that one may move up to a higher level of development. My understanding of what is breaking down is different than Dabrowski’s but I am in his debt for the concept of a positive disintegration that leads to higher functioning.

God is the God of happy endings. In the case of a nervous breakdown, the happy ending is emerging with a new more functional pattern. For example, “People Pleasing” breaks down and the people emerge free to be themselves. A new life starts free from the fear of people.

However it is possible that one does not emerge from the breakdown of the old character pattern If the nervous breakdown does not move through to a healthy new pattern then one may life in a state of hopelessness resignation. One may live in a continuous state of anxiety and or depression. One may display underlying bitterness or hostility. One lives as one without hope.

Counselling for a Nervous Breakdown

A wise counsellor helps to make a nervous breakdown into a positive breakdown. It is extremely important to access counselling resources at this time of one’s life. Failure to experience a positive breakdown leaves one in the unhappy state described above.

My role a counsellor is to give understanding of the process, to give hope of this positive outcome and to support the emergence of the new and the abandonment of the old identity.

As a Christian Transformational Counsellor, I identify what is breaking down in terms of the character patterns described by the Sandfords. Parental Inversion and Performance Orientation (Sandford, John and Paula, Transformation of the Inner Man, Bridge, 1982) are two such patterns.

I convey hope and confidence because I recognize what is happening. I understand the process. I understand the underlying belief systems behind the dysfunctional character patterns. I am like an experienced midwife. I don’t control the process but I can coach and guide a person through it.

Everyone will have times when their life is in a crisis and their emotional resources are overwhelmed. This is normal. What is not normal is to never have a major overwhelming life crisis. As far as I know this does not happen. It is normal to have crisis times.

During the emotional turmoil of the nervous breakdown the client often lacks the emotional resources to do inner healing – Christian in depth prayer psychotherapy.

However, some of the tools of Listening Prayer Therapy (Listen to God, G. Hartwell, unpublished manuscript, http://www.HealMyLife.com) can be used in the nervous breakdown. “Put it on the Altar”, “Grief and Comfort” and “Carry Me” can be helpful.

The counsellor should recognize and rejoice when he or she sees someone pulling out of the breakdown in a positive way.

Signs of Pulling through your ‘Breakdown’

What are the signs of someone pulling out of the breakdown in a positive way?

During the time of identity confusion people will use the phrase: “I don’t know.” It must be “I don’t know” without an object. My translation of “I don’t know” is “I don’t know who I am. I am confused about my identity right now.” However, I will not hear “I don’t know” when someone is pulling out of their time of disintegration.

What one does hear, if the person emerges from a pattern of people pleasing, is “I don’t care anymore.” I know that it is time to rejoice. Why? Because my interpretation is: “I don’t care anymore to live my life living up to people’s expectations. It is time to learn to be myself.”

I can’t identify as clearly the signal that people are disgusted with their pattern of being “Super Responsible.” I don’t know why that is. It may that “Super Responsible is more resistant to a positive breakdown. More observation is needed.

In counselling sessions the counsellor is often listening to the person and to God. We pray to make sure that God is invited into this character transformation process. The prayers used in “Listening Prayer Therapy” are used as appropriate in the session, as God leads. The counsellor carries some of the burden with the person as an intercessor. It is important to pray at the end of each session to release as much as possible of this burden to God.

Source http://www.healmylife.com/articles/prayer/prayer-personalcrisis.htm#Level Playing Field

Prayers for Breaking Curses and Releasing Blessings of God

Original source: Apostle John Eckhardt’s book “Prayers that Rout Demons”

Breaking Curses and Releasing the Blessings of God
I am redeemed from the curse through the blood of Jesus (Galatians 3:13).
I am the seed of Abraham, and his blessing is mine (Galatians 3:14).
I choose blessing instead of cursing and life instead of death (Deuteronomy 11:26).
I break and release myself from all generational curses and iniquities as a result of the sins of my ancestors in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses on both sides of my family back sixty generations.
I break all curses of witchcraft, sorcery, and divination in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of pride and rebellion in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of death and destruction in the name of Jesus.
I break and rebuke all curses of sickness and infirmity in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of poverty, lack, and debt in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of rejection in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of double-mindedness and schizophrenia in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of Jezebel and Ahab in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of divorce and separation in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of lust and perversion in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of confusion and mental illness in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of idolatry in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses causing accidents and premature death in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all curses of wandering and vagabond in the name of Jesus.
I break and release myself from all spoken curses and negative words spoken against me by others and by those in authority, and I bless them.
I break and release myself from all self-inflicted curses by negative words I have spoken in the name of Jesus.
I command every demon hiding and operating behind a curse to come out in the name of Jesus.

How to break a curse by prayer

You can add to this prayer as inspired by the Holy Spirit and through scripture.  Pray it as one prayer or use each section as and when required. Before, you use this prayer, please read Matthew 12:43-45.  After expelling the spirits from yourself, you will have to stop sinning, cut out the things of the world and serve God to prevent them from coming back in.
Step 1: Confess sins then renounce pride, rebellion and self-centeredness
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus, I believe that Jesus died on the cross to take my sins and rose again from the dead. I confess all my sins and repent.  Vengeance belongs to you God, not me.  I forgive everyone who has hurt me and pray for their souls because they don’t know what they have done to me.  In Jesus’ name, I transfer all pain, betrayal, rejection, abuse and trauma to the cross of Jesus Christ. I let go of all anger, resentment, hatred, thoughts of revenge and every malicious thought.  Father, as I forgive them, please forgive me. I know that pride is an abomination to you. I renounce pride, rebellion, disobedience, stubbornness and self-centredness.  I humble myself and come to You as a little child and ask for forgiveness and deliverance, in Jesus’ name.  Amen.

Step 2: Breaking all the curses
In the name of Jesus Christ, I break and loose myself and my family from all curses caused by habits, charms, hexes, spells, jinxes, psychic powers, sorcery, witchcraft, love potions, psychic prayers, violence, trauma, physical bondages, mental bondages, incest, illegitimacy, abandonment, rejection and divination, in the family on the mother and father’s side going all the way back to Adam and Eve.
I break and loose myself and my family from any vows I made; from any person or any occult or psychic sources, and any demons coming through the bloodlines.  I cancel all invitations made to unclean spirits.
Father, I break and renounce all evil soul ties that I have ever had with (lodges, fraternities, sexual partners, close friends, relatives, engagements, cults, occult objects, dolls, figurines, junk food, cigarettes, drugs, movies, anime, TV shows, computer games, gambling, porn, masturbation, fornication and secular music). I renounce all these ties and declare them destroyed in the name of Jesus.
I renounce, break and loose myself and family from all other religions, especially Roman Catholicism /Hinduism /Islam /Buddhism /Mormonism /Jehovah’s Witness /New Age /Atheism and other religions.  I also renounce unbelief, doubt, lies, fear, hatred and anger.  I bind and cast out all related spirits.
I renounce, break and loose myself from all demonic subjection to my parents or any human being, living or dead, who has dominated me in any way against the will of God.  Thank you for setting me free.
I command satan, to loose all natural resources, land, animals, money, the finances of people who owe us money, and all the things you have stolen from my family that are ours through the blessings of Jesus.  Father, please send Your angels to bring these things back to us.  In the name of Jesus I pray.  Amen.

Step 3: Bind the demons and cast out the demons
Through the blood of Jesus, I am redeemed out of the hand of the devil and all my sins are forgiven.  The blood of Jesus Christ, cleanses me from all sins.  I am justified and made righteous, just as if I had never sinned.  I am set apart for God.  My body is a temple for the Holy Spirit, redeemed and cleansed by the blood of Jesus.  I belong to Jesus now, body, soul and spirit. His blood protects me against all evil.  Satan has no more power over me, no more place inside of me.  I renounce all evil spirits completely and declare them to be my enemies. Jesus said: “And these signs shall follow them that believe: In my name shall they cast out devils: ….” (Mark 16:17).  I am a believer, and in the name of Jesus Christ, I exercise my authority and expel all evil spirits.  I command them to leave, according to the Word of God and in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Find a strong believer to pray the next section.  If you can’t find one, try praying it yourself contact me
Father in heaven, please send your Holy Spirit to fill us up in the name of Jesus.
Father in heaven, I ask for legions upon legions of angels from heaven in the name of Jesus to station around us.  Angels of the Lord, at Jesus’ command, attack every unclean spirits in Jesus’ name.
I bind the principalities, powers, rulers of darkness, spiritual wickedness and all the strong demons in the name of Jesus.  I command all demons not to transfer, go exactly where Jesus wants you to go and do not come back.  I cancel all demonic assignments on this person.

Now, speak the following commands below – if they’re not starting to come out within 10 minutes, they probably have legal right
In the name of Jesus, I remit the sins of this person.
In the name of Jesus, I separate every foul spirit from this person’s soul in accordance with the word of God in Hebrews 4:12.
I cut every foul spirit from this person with the sword of the spirit.
Unclean spirits I command you to manifest and come out in the name of Jesus.
Demons, I command you to come out of the mouth now and never come back in Jesus name.  Go to the pit! (Repeat) Up and out! (Repeat)
I send Holy Spirit fire to burn you 1,000 times hotter than hell in the name of Jesus. Fire from head to toe! (Repeat)  Hotter! (Repeat)
I send Holy Spirit fire all over your body in the mighty name of Jesus. Fire from head to toe! (Repeat)  Hotter! (Repeat)
I send Holy Spirit fire all over the room, the floor and the ceiling. Fire from head to toe! (Repeat)  Hotter! (Repeat)
Every evil spirit that hears my voice, I command you to tell the truth in the name of Jesus.  Tell us your name in the name of Jesus.  How long have you been in there? What have you been doing inside? How many are inside?  And do you have a legal right to be there?
Every evil spirit that hears my voice, I command you to attack the strongman. Do not stop in the name of Jesus.  I order civil war in the name of Jesus.  Evil spirits attack each other in the name of Jesus.  Destroy your own kingdom. I loose burning judgement and destruction upon you in the name of Jesus.I command you to look at Jesus and do what he tells you to do. Look at Jesus! (Repeat) Do what he tells you to do! (Repeat)I cut all evil spiritual connections to this body and burn it away in the name of Jesus. Burn off now! (Repeat)I torment you demons and give you no rest in the name of Jesus.
Father in heaven, send power from the third heaven to destroy these demons in the name of Jesus.
I trample on you demons and shatter your being, in the name of Jesus.
I come against every unclean spirit by the blood of the lamb.  This is a child of God.  Their body has been sanctified by the blood of Jesus.
I rebuke and cast out every unclean spirit to the pit and command them never to return in the name of Jesus.
Warrior angels, hook into the demons and rip them apart.  Send the demons to the pit in Jesus name.
Warrior angels, flog the demons and choke them out.  Send the demons to the pit in Jesus name.

Repeat each command as directed by the Holy Spirit.  End the deliverance by giving thanks to God and praising him in the name of Jesus. Examples of this prayer working:
Deliverance Videos (If the prayer doesn’t work for you, there is probably something in your life that gives legal right for the spirits to remain or you haven’t fully surrendered to Jesus).

Step 4: Protection prayers for you who are the body of Christ
Dear Father, please make me a humble servant of people like Jesus Christ.  I will push myself down, so that you God can lift me up.  Remove my human understanding and wisdom and fill me with your wisdom and understanding.  I’m a worm before you, Lord.  In accordance with your word, my righteousness is as filthy rags.  I can’t do good without you.  Please have mercy upon me and help me change day by day to become more like Jesus Christ.   I ask that you please send your ministering spirits to protect your people; and all people and animals that would be sacrificed or cursed by occult practices.
In the name of Jesus, I loose legions upon legions of angels to warfare, restore souls, protect believers, stop us from believing and agreeing with lies and release breakthrough upon myself, my family, friends and the world in the name of Jesus.
I loose the Holy Spirit who is the spirit of understanding and wisdom, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and fear of God, and the spirit of adoption upon myself, family and the world.  I invite your Holy Spirit who is the spirit of power, of love, and of sound mind against the spirit of fear.
Father, please pour out your Holy Spirit to convict the world of sins and to soften hearts to see truth.  Above all, I pray for your will, Father, to be done on earth even as it is done in heaven.  In Jesus’ name I pray.  Amen.

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http://www.testofbelievers.com/prayer-to-break-curses-cast-out-demons-and-protect-gods-people/

Prayer against the Jezebel Spirit from your life

Father, I acknowledge that I have yielded myself to the spirit of Jezebel. I come to you, humbling myself before you. I desire your standard of righteousness and holiness.

I ask you to forgive me for my tolerance of the Jezebel spirit and for being sympathetic to its ways. Please forgive me for every way I have opened myself up to this spirit. Help me to ruthlessly reject every type of this thinking and the desire to control and manipulate other people.

I renounce and bind this demon of Jezebel, and I pull down this stronghold in my life.

Through the Holy Spirit I will live by your standard of righteousness, holiness and conduct. Open my eyes and cause Your light to expose any darkness, and help me to walk in humility and truth.

In Jesus Name,

Amen!

Bible cure for narcissism

While Jesus’ popularity was growing, John the Baptist’s friends felt a little slighted for the prophet. John the Baptist however, said about Jesus, “He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.” (John 3:30 NLT) John knew that God had appointed him to be the messenger to announce the coming of the “bridegroom,” who was Christ Himself, and he was content to play the role he had been given. 

Beholding Christ on the cross

Seeing Jesus on the Cross. Harry Anderson Image © Review & Herald Publishing from GoodSalt.com

After conducting a funeral for an elderly lady,  I was eating at the table with her grown children. Each one was talking about projects they had going on in their homes. I was surprised how easily their lives seemed to be moving on. I thought to myself, “If they can move on so easily after losing their mother, how quickly will people forget me after I die?” The thought was making me a little depressed. While they were talking among themselves, I quickly checked my Facebook under the table. And I saw that a friend had written, “Living my life so that people will remember me after I die is too small a cause to live for.” With the timing, I took that as a message straight from heaven. Had I been focusing more on God’s love like John the Baptist did, instead of myself, I probably would not have had that moment of insecurity and depression. 

Health professionals agree that a lack of feeling loved is what leads to insecurities and even narcissistic attitudes. Because John the Baptist was focused on God rather than self, he was overwhelmed by God’s love, and I believe that is the exact opposite of the focus of a narcissist who is insecure because of self-focus.

Below are signs, from the Mayo Clinic, that you or someone you know may be narcissistic. 1  The Mayo clinic says this is a rare mental disease. Some may wonder what their definition of “rare” is, since  narcissistic behavior seems to be becoming an epidemic. After each sign, I have provided a Bible passage which offers a cure or example for each sign of narcissism.

I don’t believe people intend to be narcissistic, and may not be aware of their narcissism. If this looks like you, please prayerfully consider the Bible verses and perhaps contact a Christian counselor for help.

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, how you handle it needs to be determined by the nature of the relationship. In some cases, you may be able to deal with the relationship by leaning fully on Christ and getting your love and strength from Him. In other cases it may be so damaging that it becomes necessary to seek spiritual and maybe even professional counseling to find your best way out. Don’t be surprised if the narcissist makes him or herself look like the victim.

As well as providing the signs listed below to diagnose narcissism, the Mayo clinic also suggests a cause for the disease. They theorize that people who were not properly nurtured and cared for in the early stages of their life are more likely to become narcissists. If only these people realized how much God loves and cares for them!

Lucifer was loved and cared for in heaven, yet he played mind games with himself, until he brainwashed himself into thinking that nobody cared about him but himself. His only self-concocted shred of evidence was that God the Son outranked him. He felt ill-used because he did not have the position of Christ and thought, “What about me?!”

Meanwhile, Jesus, “Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to.” Philippians 2:6 NLT Instead of crying out “What about me!” Jesus has always cried out, “What about others!” Here are the signs of narcissism provided by the Mayo Clinic, along with the examples or cures found in the Bible.

  • Believing that you’re better than others

Biblical Response: Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? Any comfort from his love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts tender and compassionate?

Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose.

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.  

Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.

Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross. Philippians 2:1-8 NLT

  • Fantasizing about power, success and attractiveness

Biblical Response: So Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them.

But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant,  and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Mark 10:42-45 NLT

  • Exaggerating your achievements or talents

Biblical Response: Then the people of Ephraim asked Gideon, “Why have you treated us this way? Why didn’t you send for us when you first went out to fight the Midianites?” And they argued heatedly with Gideon.

But Gideon replied, “What have I accomplished compared to you? Aren’t even the leftover grapes of Ephraim’s harvest better than the entire crop of my little clan of Abiezer? God gave you victory over Oreb and Zeeb, the commanders of the Midianite army. What have I accomplished compared to that?”

When the men of Ephraim heard Gideon’s answer, their anger subsided. Judges 8:1-3 NLT

  • Expecting regular praise and admiration.

Biblical Example: Herod put on his royal robes, sat on his throne, and made a speech to them.  The people gave him a great ovation, shouting, “It’s the voice of a god, not of a man!”

Instantly, an angel of the Lord struck Herod with a sickness, because he accepted the people’s worship instead of giving the glory to God. Acts 12:21-23 NLT

  • Believing that you deserve special treatment

Biblical Response: When Jesus noticed that all who had come to the dinner were trying to sit in the seats of honor near the head of the table, he gave them this advice:  “When you are invited to a wedding feast, don’t sit in the seat of honor. What if someone who is more distinguished than you has also been invited?  The host will come and say, ‘Give this person your seat.’ Then you will be embarrassed, and you will have to take whatever seat is left at the foot of the table!

“Instead, take the lowest place at the foot of the table. Then when your host sees you, he will come and say, ‘Friend, we have a better place for you!’ Then you will be honored in front of all the other guests.  For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Luke 14:7-11 NLT

  • Failing to recognize other people’s emotions and feelings

Biblical Response: Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep.  Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! Romans 12:15-16 NLT

  • Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans

Biblical Response: Without wise leadership, a nation falls; there is safety in having many advisers. Proverbs 11:14 NLT

  • Taking advantage of others

Biblical Counsel: Look here, you rich people: Weep and groan with anguish because of all the terrible troubles ahead of you. Your wealth is rotting away, and your fine clothes are moth-eaten rags.  Your gold and silver have become worthless. The very wealth you were counting on will eat away your flesh like fire. This treasure you have accumulated will stand as evidence against you on the day of judgment.  For listen! Hear the cries of the field workers whom you have cheated of their pay. The wages you held back cry out against you. The cries of those who harvest your fields have reached the ears of the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. James 5:1-4 NLT

  • Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior

Biblical Example: Then Jesus told this story to some who had great confidence in their own righteousness and scorned everyone else: “Two men went to the Temple to pray. One was a Pharisee, and the other was a despised tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed this prayer: ‘I thank you, God, that I am not a sinner like everyone else. For I don’t cheat, I don’t sin, and I don’t commit adultery. I’m certainly not like that tax collector! I fast twice a week, and I give you a tenth of my income.’

“But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed. Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’  I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Luke 18:9-14 NLT

  • Being jealous of others

Biblical Response by Paul: Agrippa interrupted him. “Do you think you can persuade me to become a Christian so quickly?”

Paul replied, “Whether quickly or not, I pray to God that both you and everyone here in this audience might become the same as I am, except for these chains.” Acts 26:28-29 NLT 

(When Paul had Jesus, He did not want anything King Agrippa had. He wanted Agrippa to have what He had!)

  • Believing that others are jealous of you

Biblical Example: And David spake to the men that stood by him, saying, What shall be done to the man that killeth this Philistine, and taketh away the reproach from Israel? for who [is] this uncircumcised Philistine, that he should defy the armies of the living God? And the people answered him after this manner, saying, So shall it be done to the man that killeth him.

And Eliab his eldest brother heard when he spake unto the men; and Eliab’s anger was kindled against David, and he said, “Why camest thou down hither? and with whom hast thou left those few sheep in the wilderness? I know thy pride, and the naughtiness of thine heart; for thou art come down that thou mightest see the battle.”

And David said, “What have I now done? [Is there] not a cause?”  1 Samuel 17:26-29

  •  Having trouble keeping healthy relationships

Biblical Counsel: A man [that hath] friends must show himself friendly: and there is a friend [that] sticketh closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24

  •  Aspiring to the position of someone above you

Biblical Example: 
“How you are fallen from heaven, O shining star, son of the morning! 
You have been thrown down to the earth, 
you who destroyed the nations of the world. 
For you said to yourself, 
‘I will ascend to heaven and set my throne above God’s stars. 
I will preside on the mountain of the gods far away in the north. 
I will climb to the highest heavens 
and be like the Most High.’ 
Instead, you will be brought down to the place of the dead, 
down to its lowest depths. Isaiah 14:12-15 NLT

  • Feeling easily hurt and rejected

Christ’s Example: He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were [our] faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. But he [was] wounded for our transgressions, [he was] bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace [was] upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.  Isaiah 53:3-6

  • Having a fragile self-esteem

Biblical Example: And the women answered [one another] as they played, and said, Saul hath slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands .And Saul was very wroth, and the saying displeased him; and he said, They have ascribed unto David ten thousands, and to me they have ascribed [but] thousands: and [what] can he have more but the kingdom?  

And Saul eyed David from that day and forward.  1 Samuel 18:7-9

  • Wanting to appear tough-minded or unemotional

Biblical Promise: And I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within you; and I will take the stony heart out of their flesh, and will give them an heart of flesh:  Ezekiel 11:19

If you see yourself here, or someone you have to deal with on a regular basis, you may need to seek professional counseling. (Here is some helpful advice on dealing with a narcissistic boss.)

We may be tempted to be narcissistic in some very ordinary circumstances. For instance, a while back, a friend of mine was flying from Tampa to Chicago every week on a work assignment. At the end of a certain week he was tired and ready for a quiet and relaxing plane ride home. It wasn’t going to happen. That day a large group got on the plane who were having a big noisy celebration of some kind. Instead of getting angry or upset, my friend who was already tired, just sighed and smiled, as he told himself, “Apparently today is not about me.”

In many cases, the cure may just be that simple. Remember that “It’s not all about me.”

For the disciples it was a little more complex than that. They had rivalries and arguments over which one would be the greatest in the coming Kingdom. It wasn’t until they saw Jesus on the cross willing to die the second death and go into total oblivion that they then lost their narcissistic tendencies and became selfless and meek like John the Baptist who said, 

He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less. John 3:30 NLT 

The disciples overcame self and narcissism when they did what John the Baptist suggested years earlier. 

“Look! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world! John 1:29 NLT 

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