Day 5: Ask for 3 things that are uncomfortable with you

Love is not rude

He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him. 

—Proverbs 27:14 

TODAY’S DARE

Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

Day 4: Contact your spouse during the day and offer your help

Love is thoughtful

How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . .How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. 

—Psalm 139:17–18 

TODAY’S DARE

Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.